Is Your Happily Ever After Not Enough?
Crosswalk Video
Audio By Carbonatix
By Rhonda Stoppe, Crosswalk.com
Do you remember the thoughts running through your mind on the day you said, “I do”?
I remember being captivated by my ever-so-handsome groom–who was dressed in a white tux and tails. Vowing to love, honor and cherish my husband, I was convinced that our happily-ever-after love story would fulfill my longing for a happy life.
As Steve and I settled into married life, I remember how I would look to him to fulfill all of my emotional longings. When I was sad, lonely, or feeling unattractive, if my husband did not say or do just the right things to make me feel better, I would secretly feel betrayed.
With each “betrayal” I found myself stuffing resentful thoughts toward my husband into the corners of my mind. Maybe you can relate to my experience. Do you struggle with feelings of resentment when your husband fails to measure up to your expectations? Do you find yourself feeling betrayed when your husband doesn’t make the effort to make you feel valued?
Resources:
The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be
Our Focus on the Family Interview: Creating a No Regrets Marriage
Focus on the Family Free Counseling Link
